3 Role Play Counselling Scenarios

Scenario: Improving Communication in a Relationship

Client: Karen, a 35-year-old woman who is having communication issues in her relationship.

Background: Karen has been in a long-term relationship with her partner, but they’ve been having trouble communicating effectively. Karen feels like her partner doesn’t listen to her, and they often argue about small things. Karen is worried that their relationship is in trouble, and she wants to improve their communication.

Counsellor: Tom, a trained counsellor with experience in relationship counselling.

Counsellor: Hi, Karen. I’m Tom, and I’m here to help you. Thank you for coming in today. Can you tell me a bit more about what’s been going on?

Karen: My partner and I have been having trouble communicating. We argue a lot, and I feel like he doesn’t listen to me. I’m worried that we’re drifting apart.

Counsellor: That sounds really tough. Communication is key in any relationship. Have you tried talking to your partner about how you’re feeling?

Karen: Yes, but it seems like he’s not really listening.

Counsellor: I see. It’s important to create a safe and supportive environment for communication. Have you tried using “I” statements instead of “you” statements?

Karen: No, I haven’t.

Counsellor: “I” statements can help you express your feelings and needs in a way that doesn’t come across as blaming or accusatory. For example, instead of saying “You never listen to me,” you could say “I feel like I’m not being heard when we talk.”

Karen: Okay, I can try that.

Counsellor: Let’s also talk about active listening. It’s important to listen to your partner without interrupting or getting defensive. Would you like to practice active listening with me?

Karen: Yes, that would be helpful.

Counsellor: Okay, I’ll be your partner, and you can practice listening without interrupting.

Counsellor: (role-playing) Karen, I feel like you’re always criticizing me.

Karen: (listening) Okay, can you tell me more about how you’re feeling?

Counsellor: (role-playing) I feel like I can’t do anything right, and it’s making me feel really down.

Karen: (listening) I’m sorry to hear that. Is there anything specific that’s making you feel criticized?

Counsellor: Great job, Karen. That was a good example of active listening. By practicing active listening and using “I” statements, you can create a more supportive environment for communication and improve your relationship.

Conclusion:

Communication issues can be challenging, but with the help of a trained counsellor, individuals can learn to express their needs and feelings effectively and build stronger relationships. In this scenario, the counsellor used active listening and “I” statements to help the client improve her communication with her partner. By practicing role play counselling scenarios, counsellors can develop the skills they need to support their clients effectively and compassionately.

More role play counselling scenarios are coming soon…